Fear of rejection is one of the most insidious enemies of progress in your online business. It rarely announces itself. It does not show up as a conscious thought like “I am afraid people will reject me.” Instead, it disguises itself as procrastination, perfectionism, and endless preparation.
Here is how it actually plays out. You know you should write a blog post, but you cannot bring yourself to start. You know you should launch that product, but you keep finding reasons to delay. You know you should publish that podcast episode, but you rerecord it four times because it is not quite right. In the back of your mind, you are worried that your efforts will lead to criticism, indifference, or public rejection of your work.
The Subtle Sabotage of Fear
So you do not make progress. And you rationalize it. You tell yourself the timing is not right, or you need to learn more first, or you are waiting for the perfect moment. But the real reason is fear. Fear that nobody will read what you write. Fear that nobody will buy what you create. Fear that someone will leave a harsh comment or a one-star review.
In moderation, this fear is actually useful. Concern about what people will think is what drives you to create quality content, to proofread your work, to put genuine effort into your products. The problem starts when that concern becomes so overwhelming that it prevents you from shipping anything at all.
The Cost of Not Publishing
Here is what I have learned after building an online business and podcasting since 2009: the content you do not publish helps exactly zero people. The product you do not launch earns exactly zero dollars. The email you do not send builds exactly zero relationships. Perfect work that exists only on your hard drive is worth less than imperfect work that is out in the world.
Yes, some people will not like what you create. Some people will ignore it entirely. And occasionally, someone will actively criticize it. That is the price of admission for creating anything. Every successful creator, writer, podcaster, and entrepreneur has faced rejection. The ones who made it are not the ones who avoided rejection — they are the ones who kept going despite it.
What to Do About It
My advice is straightforward. Pick something you have been avoiding because of fear — a blog post, a video, an email to your list, a product idea — and publish it this week. Accept that it might not be perfect. Accept that someone might not like it. Then put it out there anyway.
You miss every shot you do not take. That is not just a motivational poster slogan. It is the mathematical reality of building an online business. Zero attempts equals zero results. So set your fears aside and push forward today. You will be glad you did.




Hi Mark,
Thanks for your motivational blog post this morning. Having just released as a pre-launch my very first product last Friday everything you mentioned was in the back of my mind. But like you say, put it aside and push forward which is what I have done.
I (like a proud parent) now have my own customer base, and am getting prepared for my big launch with my JV partners (Jason Fladlien, John S Rhodes and number of others).
Exciting times – cheers!
I think people should just get off the mind block thing and do like ‘Nike” Just Do It
“TrafficColeman “Signing Off”
Hi Mark,
Thanks for the reminder. I am very new to this cyber world and have been trying for months to take that next step, but I always seem to get side tracked. Part of the problem seems to be I am still trying to find the legs I need to stand on for firm footing so I can take the next step. But I have known all along that my main problem is this fear of not getting it right the first time, or making a fool of myself, or not choosing the right method to get the results I need.
Your message this morning, is the kind of reminder I need every once in a while to keep trying and not give up. One day I hope to find those legs and actually get going.
If you don’t get a few rejections now and then you’re not doing it right 😉